Feeling Stuck?

By Brenda J. Williams

Have you ever felt like you were simply put, “stuck in life?”

You knew what you wanted but didn’t exactly know how to get there?

Or have you felt like, I need to do more in my life because, “I feel like this is not my story’s end?”

The need to do more, and I have to do more is just where my story starts.

Hi, I am Coach Brenda J.

Maybe a lot of you don’t know me, but a select few do.  I am a 54 yr old mother of 3 beautiful children, ranging from ages 29, 27, and 22.  Two of the 3 were born prematurely weighing 2 lbs 12 oz and 3 lbs 13 ozs.  They were healthy babies, just born 2 months early.   I was 25 and 27 when I had the first 2, and 32 when I had my last.

After having my last, I felt like my life was almost complete, but there was something missing.  I could not quite place my finger on it, but I felt it inside.  On the daily I tried to search within myself to figure out what was missing, but for a long time, I just couldn’t.  

Fast forward to 2010.  GE Aviation came to our community.  It was an opportunity of a lifetime.  I applied for a position there because it paid great and it was a chance for me to do more for my family.  Well as time passed the chance never came for me to work there, I never received that call.  Fast forward to 2013.  I finally received   the call, that I need to come in for an interview.   I was beside myself.  Thrilled when I got the word that I was hired.  It felt so right. 

What I am saying is that it is a time and place for everything.  In 2010 when I applied for this position it wasn’t my time, but 3 yrs later it was!  So just because your vision is delayed does not me it was denied.  I had been at GE for 8 yrs in 2021, and that yr was my last yr.  I just felt it in me that it was time to go.  So I prayed and prayed.  I had been given many signs that it was time, but I kept putting it off.  When my anniversary came up this year(2021) I knew it would not be long.  I was mentally and physically tired.  It was all that consumed my thoughts.  I thought the number 7 means completion.  So I thought, yesss this is for me.  Then I thought the number 8 means new beginnings.  Yessss, absolutely this is my time. So I did what I thought I would never do!  I haven’t looked back since.  

So 4 yrs ago I took a keen interest into being a life coach.  I searched all I could on personal development, and decided that life coaching was for me.  I loved being of service to others and I was doing the work anyway. In 2019, I got into a program with Life and Relationship Coach Tony Gaskins, and from that program,  I was chosen as a candidate for his mentor program!  I loved it!

Late 2020, I was sure I wasn’t quite ready to jump into coaching just yet.  I felt the need to want more.  In December of 2020, I met this incredible person and was introduced to Diamond Academy.  I joined Diamond Academy in March of 2021.  I amaze myself when I reflect on all the things that I have learned.

Let me tell you, when you are ready to branch out and work on your personal growth, your legacy, empowering your personal energy, allow me to come and guide you through your desires, your dreams and goals.  When you are ready to empower your personal growth, and transform your life and the life of those around you, I can help!

Brenda J Williams is a certified life purpose coach, who also specializes in conflict resolution and transparency.  She helps women and men who have a hard time being open and honest, not only with others, but also in themselves by being transparent.  She also helps those that need help in reaching an agreement where everyone can come to terms with. She is currently hosting of a weekly zoom called “What is Your Why?” where they discuss what your purpose is and your why behind doing it!

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